Good leadership is just as often about what you don’t do, as what you do, writes David Pich.
When it comes to building leaders, there is an inundating stampede of advice out there encouraging aspiring professionals to act on their impulses.
Every Silicon Valley entrepreneur, auto-biographing politician, and overnight success story inspires leaders to take a leap of faith, be brave, break rules, conquer whatever fear is holding them back.
But this all misses the point of leadership, and if you were an unsuspecting emerging leader guiding your professional growth with only these recommendations, I foresee that your leadership will fail.
Good leadership is just as often about what you don’t do, as what you do.
When I’m not leading my organisation, I’m a keen runner. I became one because running lies at the core of my own personal resilience plan.
When I started out, it was something I did to manage my stress and look after myself. As it became part of my wellness routine, I’ve found that it is now, in fact, an excellent opportunity for me to reflect and take stock.
Although I’m attached to running, I’m not really attached to any brand of running gear. I wear just about everything – Nike, Adidas, Mizuno, anything really.
That said, I admit to having a secret love for the Nike motto – ‘Just do it’. Having spent a fair bit of time in marketing in my career, I reckon that whoever came up with that tagline absolutely nailed it.
Those words made me realise that during pivotal management and leadership moments the most appropriate tagline should be the anti-Nike slogan. ‘Just don’t’ do it’.
It’s simple, punchy, to the point and – crucially – it sums up in four short words why leadership fails.
Think of the worst example of leadership you can. Take Harvey Weinstein.
While the Weinstein case was unfolding, how many of us read the disgusting litany of his crimes and misdemeanors and thought (or shouted); “What the hell was he thinking?”
But when it’s broken down and analysed, Weinstein was someone in a leadership position. He had money, power – everything. And he chose to use that money and power to rape and abuse women.
There would have been a moment in his career – way back – a ‘crossroads moment’, when he was faced with a choice. Right or wrong. Just do it. Or just don’t do it. He made his choice.
I believe that every single example of poor management and leadership, every single incidence of harassment and bullying, of inappropriate behaviour and unethical conduct is preceded by a crossroads moment.
And poor leadership results when the leader chooses to ignore that voice (however quietly it whispers) saying, ‘Just don’t do it’.
A CEO I knew of some time ago was conducting multiple inappropriate relationships at work.
He knew it was the wrong thing to do. He knew that as a leader he should behave better. But he did it anyway and it destroyed the culture at the organisation. He chose to ignore the voice that said, ‘Just don’t do it’.
The bullying leader in your company right now. He knows he’s a bully and he’s chosen at some point to ignore the voice that (once) said, ‘Just don’t do it’.
So, what’s the answer to this? Where does this seemingly simple analysis lead us?
Managers and leaders need to do much more reflecting and taking stock. They need to stop and think and resolve to be different and do different.
They need to hold a mirror up to their faces (metaphorically) and say, “If what I’m doing or thinking of doing was on the front page of the newspaper or my Facebook feed, how would that look? How would I look?”
Managers and leaders need to go for a long run in the morning as the sun is coming up, and as they’re running, they need to listen to that voice that is saying, ‘Just don’t do it’.
